Age Issues

There’s a joke that has gone around: When it comes to telling his age, he’s shy… About 10 years shy! One of the most common reasons a man or woman over the age of 35 reject a proposed match is due to age. And as they get older, they tend to be even more particular…

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THE GO-TO SHIDDUCH WEBSITES

As I am working to organize and plan a great weekend retreat for singles in New Jersey in the Fall, I am doing a little less activity as a shadchan, although I still welcome singles to register with me by uploading their profile to www.TheShadchanit.com. Beyond that, there are two shidduch websites that I recommend…

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Worst Words in A Dating Lexicon

I recently set up a couple – let’s call them Boaz and Rut. After the first date, Rut tells me, “Nice guy but I just don’t feel it.” This raises many questions: If you are over 27 and unmarried, when did you feel it…at a time when he felt it too? Clearly that never happened…

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Creating a Shidduch Profile

As a shadchan, I get frustrated when singles make it harder for me to help, such as when someone sends me their Linked In profile and tells me to pull info from there to set them up. Yes, it has happened. And it’s not much different than someone sending me a bad shidduch profile with…

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